Why You Need to Take a Boring Vacation with Your Friends
Sí, leíste bien. Boring. I’m talking about that kind of trip donde te acuestas temprano, con cara lavada, face mask y toda la cosa, y ni siquiera tienes que peinarte o maquillarte. Sound like a dream? It kinda is.
Look, I get it. We all plan vacations with the best intentions, packing each day with activities porque queremos verlo todo, meternos en todo, andar en la calle hasta que nos duelan los pies, because, let’s be real—¿quién sabe cuándo vamos a regresar? Scarcity mindset anyone? Uyyy, bring in the therapists, por favor. Y al final, you end up needing a vacation from your vacation. You go back to work y andas de malas por varios días. ¿Te identificas o que?
I once took a trip with some friends to the Miami area, and guess what? No había plan alguno. Not a single agenda in sight. No pressure to be anywhere at a certain time, no running around in heels, nada. Lo que sí tuvimos were real, meaningful conversations, time to hang out calmly, and zero distractions. Estábamos listos en pijama como a las 7:30 y en la cama antes de las 10 PM. We slept with Manta Eye masks on so not an ounce of light could hit us, and woke up whenever we felt like it. Un sueño, la verdad. Pun intended. I still think about that trip, clearly.
Don’t get me wrong—todavía amo una vacación llena de aventuras, but after that experience, I’m ready for more boring vacations with friends. ¡Qué rico! More boring vacations, porfaaaa. I’m telling you, you can’t lose with this kind of trip.
Let’s normalize not having to spend a ton of money or plan over-the-top experiences just to make fun memories with our friends. I mean, seriously—who said a good time needs to come with a side of financial stress? Why is that the norm? ¿Para qué endeudarnos solo para tener recuerdos? The truth is, you don’t need a luxury vacation or jam-packed itinerary to have an unforgettable trip. Sometimes, the best moments come from the simplest plans.
Why “Boring” Vacations are Actually the Best
1. Relaxation and Rejuvenation
Sometimes, the best vacation is the one where you don’t do anything. Relaxing on a slow-paced trip te ayuda a recargar las pilas. It’s about stepping away from the crazy hustle of everyday life and just chilling. No más estrés, no más rush—just pure relaxation.
2. Deeper Connections
You know what happens when you take away all the distractions? You actually get to connect with your friends. Sí, en serio. With a boring vacation, there’s more time for conversaciones profundas and stronger bonds. You can even use conversation cards, there are even bilingual ones like these from Hija de Tu Madre, or Amigas Circle. It’s the kind of quality time you didn’t know you needed.
3. Budget-Friendly
Let’s be honest—boring vacations are better for your wallet, your bank account, your future, todo! Fewer activities mean fewer gastos, and you’re not out here trying to do every tourist trap. It’s a win-win for you and your crew. Más calidad, menos gastar a lo loco, especially if you’re actively working on your finances and still want to have fun. Porque la vida es para disfrutar!
4. Mindfulness and Reflection
You know that feeling when you’re constantly on the go during a trip and you feel flustered because you’re just thinking about what’s next and how late you’re going to be? Exactamente, no lo sientes en un viaje aburrido. This kind of vacation gives you time to just be. You can reflect, enjoy your surroundings, and appreciate little moments without needing to run from one place to another. A little mindfulness, amiguis, does wonders.
5. Exploring Lesser-Known Places
Sometimes the best experiences están fuera de los lugares turísticos. Boring vacations often lead you to explore hidden gems—those off-the-beaten-path spots that no one’s talking about but are totally worth it. Quiet, peaceful, and authentic.
6. Appreciation of Simplicity
We often think we need big adventures para disfrutar una vacación, pero ¿sabes qué? There’s something beautiful about simplicity. Whether it’s a picnic, a walk, or just sitting around en una sala platicando, the simple moments can be the most memorable. A veces menos es más.
7. Reduced Pressure
La mejor parte de una vacación aburrida is the no pressure vibe. There’s no tight timeline, no rushing from one activity to the next. You get to just relax, disfrutar la compañía de tus amigos, and not worry about where you need to be. Stress-free vacay? Yes, please.
Instead of feeling like we need to splurge to have fun, let’s embrace simple vacations where we can relax, laugh, and connect without the pressure of doing it all. Porque, let’s be real—la tranquilidad no tiene precio, and you can’t put a value on those chill moments with friends where you can just be yourselves.
Book that “Boring” Vacation
Everyone has a different idea of what makes a good vacation. Lo que es “aburrido” para unos, puede ser el descanso perfecto para otros. Al final del día, it’s all about quality time with your friends and creating lasting memories—whether that’s through an adventurous getaway or a calm trip where you simply relax.
So, next time you’re planning a trip, don’t feel like you have to go big or gastar tanto. Take a “boring” vacation where you can enjoy each other’s company, relax, and return home feeling recharged, not broke.
¿Pa’ donde nos vamos entonces?
